LIFE - MY BEST FRIEND

                                        

                                                      LIFE -  MY BEST FRIEND

જીંદગી સાથેના સંવાદ.....

            LIFE - What does it mean ?  No one can define the meaning of  life because it has its own meaning. Life is the biggest canvas. one can draw any picture which she/he wants to draw in her/his canvas. Invisible dots are exited in the canvas but with time dots are visible and creates new image of it.  Same way , the day is always new for us and we have to add it in our life. Philosophers have their own meaning,  ordinary people have their own meaning and  saints have their own meaning  then even we can't define the meaning of Life itself.  I think Life is .............Given Time to everybody . Now, one is free to spend their time and use their time to do  whatever  they want to so. Life is the mixture of so many little things but we forget to enjoy that beautiful moments due to waiting for big things.

           

                                    I just want to learn with my Friend.  It is the mixture of sorrow and joy, sadness and happiness,  pain and agony, solitude and loneliness,  peace and noise , tear and smile and so many things together...................................

                        After getting little understanding , I am still surprised that no one can teach us how to live ? From the childhood , we are taught how to Win rather than what is the right way to Win or failure is also more important part  as winning is  in our life.  In school  and colleges, teachers teach and guide us in various subjects like.....Maths, Geography , History, Philosophy, Science , different languages  and many other subjects.........But I never heard about life from them. So surprising.  They never teach us how to live or deal with practical life?

            They all want to teach us Success only no doubt it is best thing for us but we have to learn that all time we can't become success. We must accept our own Failure which is taught by Life only. It teaches that one has to carry on with Smile because Smile is the symbol of Hope and Strength.  Life is the best teacher because with time it teaches us so many things which people and text books  can't. That's why " Life is the Best Teacher."

           

              May some time one tries with life and getting bore, too but we have to learn how to pass our time which is fulfill with agony.  If one is more positive then even sometime she/he feels where she/he belongs? But Our own self never allow to fit where we don't belong. Life is very beautiful if you have sight to see it, enjoy it with pain and torment. Life is the celebrations of pains.  I am habituated to preserve my life - my friend in my Di@ary !!! I write everything which I spoke in speech, fu with friends and most important my own thoughts which is more important for me.  And the benefits is that Diary never denies. After time passes , it is amazing to read , laugh on those things which I couldn't enjoy those time. Really, it is most helpful to live further life.

            During our LIFE we meet so many people,  all are important in life. It is not necessary to have good relation to each but at least one has the chance to observe and learn the behaviours and human nature by self learning.  Life teach us balance between good and bad.

                        Now , I think that we forget to live life. We all behave like we all are in race. We all want to Win  but we forget that all can't be Winner. Life teaches us that we  have not prove ourselves  to anyone or The World.   We must live for ourselves , must enjoy the life happily.  It has power to change your mood soon cheerful to depression and hurting to ecstasy........Each day we all are controlled by time - life and we fool think that we control our Time !!!

                       

કેટ કેટલું મેળવું હોય છે આ જિંદગીમા ! જે નથી એ મેળવવા માટે જે છે એ છોડતા જઇએ છીએ. Comfort-zone માંથી નીકળી જઇએ ને જે શરૂ થાય એ......... જિંદગી.
     
           જનારને રોકવાના ધમપછાડા કરવાને બદલે એને આવજો કહેતા શીખવવાનું છે આપણે જીંદગી પાસેથી. હજુ સુધી નથી સમજાયું ......કે શા માટે આપણે હોવાપણાનું મહત્વ નથી સમજી શકતા.!!!!
  
      વ્યક્તિના મૃત્યુ પાછળ રો-કળકળ કરવાને બદલે ક્યારેય વિચાર્યુ છે કે આપણે રડીએ છીએ શા માટે ??? કદાચ...આપણે એની સાથે કરેલા વ્યવહાર પર, એની સાથે વિતાવેલી એક એક ક્ષણ પર ! કારણ આપણને એવું લાગે કે કદાચ આનાથી વધુ સારી રીતે એ સમયને , એ વ્યક્તિને સંભાળી શક્યા હોત , વધુ યાદગાર બનાવી શક્યા હોત!!!!!!

 જીંદગી ક્યારેય આપણો સાથ નહી છોડે. મારે ને જીંદગી સાથે ચાલવાનું છે . અલબત , મારે એની સાથે ચાલવાનું છે .જીંદગી અઘરી નથી પણ સતત બદલાતી રહે છે માટે થોડી સમજાતી નથી. હા, માણસોની જેમ જ !

     ક્યારેક હારી જાવ , તુટી જાવ તો પણ એ સામે ઊભી જ હોય એક આશ બની ને .......O zindgi, તું તો inspirationથી ભરેલી છે, તું બધાને હંફાવી શકે છે , પછાડી શકે છે ને ભરી દોડતા પણ કરી શકે છે . Its all about  Journey.

    આવતીકાલને જીવવાની આશમાં કદાચ આજને ભૂલી જઈએ છીએ. નહી ???આપણે બધા જ એવું વિચારીએ છીએ કે આપણને જે મળવું જોઇએ એ નથી મળ્યું અથવા તો એનાથી ઓછું મળ્યું છે. નહી !!! કેટલી હેરાન કરીએ છીએ આ જીંદગી ને !!!!

       જીંદગી ...........ન ભાગના હૈં , ન રુકના હૈં , બસ તેરે સાથ હી ચલતે રહેના હૈં .....!